Holistic Breastfeeding Guide: Questions, Challenges, and Solutions

For those of you who are breastfeeding or did for any period of time, I am so proud of you! You are amazing!! For those of you who couldn’t, know that you are still an amazing parent and I hope you received the support you needed. Breastfeeding is one of the most powerful ways a mother can nourish and protect her baby’s health. It’s so much more than just food, it’s immune support, comfort, bonding, and a biological rhythm we’ve followed for millennia. Most medical organizations recommend exclusive breastfeeding for the first six months, and continuing for as long as it feels right for both mom and baby after that. Globally, the average weaning age is around four years, which may come as a surprise to some in our culture. With my background in biological anthropology, it’s worth noting that our closest relatives, the great apes, typically breastfeed for five to six years. This long-term nursing supports the transition from total dependence to solid food, and helps young ones learn to feed themselves while still receiving vital nourishment and connection. Before we get into the tips and trouble shooting, let’s discuss the benefits of breastfeeding for parents and babies.


Benefits for babies:

  • Helps strengthen baby’s gut microbiome with nutrients, antibodies, and growth factors. So much of our overall health is linked to the health of our guts, including the function of our immune systems.

  • Acts as a laxative to help baby pass meconium and bilirubin that has built up during the pregnancy.

  • Infants who were exclusively breastfed were shown in studies to have lower rates of asthma, allergies, and eczema.

  • They also have been shown to have less infections due to the immune protection breastmilk provides. For example, breast-fed babies have less ear, throat, sinus, and lower respiratory infections.

  • They also have lower rates of major autoimmune diseases like childhood leukemia, and other major illnesses such as necrotizing enterocolitis and childhood obesity.

  • Finally, exclusively breastfed babies have 73% lower risk of dying from sudden infant death syndrome.

Benefits for Parents

  • Breastfeeding helps to suppress ovulation and may help prevent pregnancy during postpartum

  • Breastfeeding can lower risk of breast and ovarian cancer and osteoporosis

  • Moms who exclusively breastfeed are half as likely to develop type 2 diabetes compared to mothers who do not.

  • Breastfeeding is less expensive and more convenient than formula feeding. Over $3000 a year can be saved on formula, bottles, etc. Money is also saved in the form of less doctors’ visits due to the protective power of breastmilk.

  • Breastfeeding is a wonderful opportunity for bonding between mother and child. Breastfeeding releases oxytocin, “the love hormone”, which helps mothers to develop deep admiration for their babies and the desire to care for them.

Although many parents understand these amazing benefits, we also tend to worry about our ability to breastfeed successfully. I’ve noticed this boil down to two real issues: pain or discomfort and low supply (or perceived low supply). Luckily there are solutions to these problems. Let’s start by taking a look at discomfort.

Tips and Troubleshooting Breastfeeding

Maybe because of these amazing benefits, we tend to worry about our ability to breastfeed successfully. I’ve noticed this boils down to two real issues: pain or discomfort and low supply (or perceived low supply). Luckily there are solutions to these problems. Let’s start by taking a look at discomfort.

Pain and Discomfort

The most common cause of nipple pain in breastfeeding is a poor latch. Bad latches can cause soreness, cracking, and bleeding. Luckily, there’s an easy solution to this. Fix the latch.

Tips for a good latch:

  1. Bring baby’s belly to touch your belly

  2. Tilt baby’s head back

  3. Bring baby’s chin into your chest/breast below nipple

  4. Release nipple into baby’s mouth, making sure their nose is free of the chest/breast

  5. Make sure the entire nipple (and as much of the areola as possible) is in the mouth

If latch issues persist, check for a tongue or lip toe and be sure to consult an IBCLC.

Once the latch has been resolved, nipple pain can be addressed in a number of ways

Nipple Pain

  1. Moisturize the skin (do not use lanolin)

  2. Try a saline soak (not epsom salt)

  3. Use hyrdrogel pads

  4. Try a nipple shield for protection as the nipples heal

Besides latch issues, there are two other common causes of pain during breastfeeding that go hand in hand: engorgement and clogged ducts.

Engorgement

Until 6 weeks, breasts may feel engorged as the body begins to regulate to a supply and demand approach. This may also happen when you have gone longer than usual without breastfeeding or if you suddenly change your feeding frequency. Here are some tips to help you out:

  1. Keep breasts cold between feedings

  2. Warm the breast immediate before

    feeding

  3. Cabbage leaves over the breast can

    soothe and reduce engorgement

  4. Try breast massage

  5. Try reverse pressure softening

  6. DO NOT PUMP

Clogged Ducts

Clogged ducts, milk blisters, and other obstructions can be extremely painful and lead to serious infections such as mastitis. It is important to get them resolved and manage pain as early as possible. Here are some tips for clogged ducts:

  1. Try a gentle breast massage

  2. Apply warmth to the breast

  3. Feed often so baby can help you remove the obstruction with their powerful suction

  4. Try switching positions so gravity can do some of the work for you. Try laying overtop of baby and hanging the breast into their mouth.

  5. Prevention tips: wear loose fitting clothes and don't go too long between feedings.

Supply Issues

Early issues

Many parents worry about breastfeeding because milk does not come in immediately. It is important to note that the first food for baby is just a few drops of nutrient dense colostrum, which helps build baby’s microbiome and prepare their body to digest milk.

Colostrum begins being produced at 20 weeks pregnant, and milk usually comes in between 3-5 days postpartum. For those who worry about supply, remember the average size of newborn feedings are:

- 1-1.4 teaspoons for 1 day old

- 0.75-1 oz for 3 day old

- 1.5-2 oz for 1 week old

- 2.5-5 oz for 1 month and beyond

Also- do keep in mind that most babies will lose weight the first week of life and gain it back in the second week. This is nothing to be concerned about. As long as baby is having enough dirty diapers and appears in a good mood and well nourished, they are fine!

Boosting Milk Supply

If you are having supply issues after the first couple of weeks there are some other important things to remember.

  1. Let baby latch as much as possible. Breastfeeding is a supply and demand system so the more you practice, the more you will make!

  2. Skin to skin: one of the hormonal drivers of breastfeeding is oxytocin which is produced when you and baby spend time with your bare skin on each other. Other things also stimulate oxytocin production such as seeing or smelling your baby. Spend time really bonding and enjoying them.

  3. Nourish yourself. This means drinking half of your body weight in ounces of water per day and being sure to eat around 500 extra calories a day of healthy, high protein, high fat foods.

Remember- with enough support almost everyone can breastfeed. If you still have trouble after trying the tips in this post, or have other more serious concerns, contact an IBCLC. They are experts on breastfeeding and can help with all sorts of conditions.

Payton Kaar

Hi, I’m Payton.

I’m a full spectrum doula who supports families through fertility, birth, postpartum, abortion, and loss. I help women step into their innate power and knowledge so they can birth confidently and autonomously. In postpartum, I find joy in nurturing and nourishing mama so she can focus on healing and rediscovering herself. My goal is to bring back community care, traditional healing practices, and ancient wisdom.

https://www.orlandobirthdoula.com/
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